"Life puts you in front of trials that you never think about", the touching confession of Sidr Bejler about the loss of his daughter: Today she would have been 17 years old

Invited to the show "S'e Luan Topi", the well-known artist, Sidrit Bejleri, narrated the journey of his life, as he stopped in a touching account of the loss of his daughter, Sofia, years ago, when she was 19. monthly.

Sidriti has stated that the loss of Sofia, his first daughter who would have been 17 years old today, has been a strong test for him and his wife.

The singer has shown that together with his three children, he and his wife, Meri, remember Sofia from time to time.

He confessed that they have always wanted their three children, Amad, 14, Emel, 11, and 5-year-old Ejna, to grow up with the idea that they had an older sister, and even often think about how she would be today.

"We talked about many things with the children, they know that they had an older sister and they often draw parallels, she would be 17 years old today, how would she behave with us. We want to raise them with the idea that they also had an older sister.

Because you have to understand that life is strange, life puts you in front of trials that you never think of. You think that you will always be a uninvolved observer, but when you are inside then you say "why did it happen to me?". This is what happens, but you have to know how to react", he confessed between emotions in an interview for "S'e luan Topi".

"To be honest, in the years that we started to understand, which were the 90s, I didn't have any access to faith. My nature a bit 'anti' in everything, I wanted to be from the other side. I had no access to faith. But then, being an inquisitive nature, I started thinking that some things that science calls coincidence... I read that if the sun was closer there would be no life because it would be too hot, coincidence. If the sun was a little further away, there would still be no life because it would be too cold, and this is also a coincidence. There were a lot of coincidences and I pointed the finger at myself and said: 'Aren't you the fool in the middle?' It was impossible for all these millions of coincidences to live in the human body. I began to read more seriously and believed that there is a Creator.

In Sophia's time, I was made aware of things that had happened to other people. I said how I would react. I thought that I would go to where she lives, I would not eat, I would not drink and I would just stay there. meanwhile I reacted completely differently. Mary and I, several others who have gone through other trials in life, have told us about how we reacted. God gave us that strength.

At one point, it seems like a person can't get out of that vortex, but some things happen to remove that fog. Sofia was the opportunity to give meaning to life. God never takes back a gift that He has given before. And in the end, the gift he gave us he took back for himself, He with his wisdom. Here we are again 5, we remember him, may God join us with him in paradise.

In that period, I realized that I had many friends. How can you remember the days of trouble with nostalgia? I remember them with nostalgia because they were there every day. Some finished work in Shkodër and came to meet me in the afternoon or at dinner to give me heart and strength. To share the pain and trouble with them", said the artist.