"You don't have your son with me, but with your brother or father-in-law", the woman from Dibra in tears: They forced me...

2022-07-06 12:43:40Aktualitet SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX
"You don't have your son with me, but with your brother or
Zylfie Lame

From dreams of a happy marriage, to physical and psychological spousal abuse and accusations of incest, this is the story that News24 covered.

Zylfie Lame, 40 years old from Dibra, got married 15 years ago with the hope that the economic difficulties and the drama in her father's house would end, without knowing that the drama of her life had not yet begun.

The husband, who they forced her to have by her side, was a person who had a mental health card for years. After facing this truth, it was too late for him to leave her and go back to his parents' house. Forced by her husband, the 40-year-old woman becomes a mother for the first time after a short period of time.

After the boy was born, this woman, as if the systematic violence was not enough, faced an accusation that made her think about suicide. "You don't have your son with me, but with your brother or father-in-law", these were exactly the words that this woman was accused by her husband.

Found in this situation, Zylfie Lame was forced to remain closed for months. So, the husband repeatedly tried to kill the newborn child, saying that he had no place in his house.

" I was 25 years old when they lied to me about getting married. They told me you would be in the middle of Saranda, you would be comfortable. But it didn't work out that way. I traveled for two days, from Dibra to Saranda, to get married. They showed me all the good things, but not the bad things. I believed. He came and brought me a lyre, put a thick gold pendant on me and told me that I would be like a princess. But on the way, when I was going to be a bride, I understood, I got cold. Neither the husband, nor the sisters-in-law, nor the father-in-law, entered my heart. We did not have a conversation, we could not cry over a household problem as a couple. That man did not enter my heart.

He had problems. I did not inform the family that I suffered at my father's door, that we were very poor. They didn't even let me have a phone in my hand, they left me a guard. He was very jealous. That's what his brain told him. I went to Greece for 10 days, but I was bored. Everything I did with my husband was known. When we went to Greece, he filled his shoes with necessities and told his friends that his wife filled them. I wanted to cut myself with scissors, I didn't know what to do. The Greek owner told her that you have the signs of a bride, you should hold her in your hands' , the woman's confession.


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