Flutura Tema's dramatic story has come to News24 today, she is a mother who carries pain and longing in her soul. She was divorced 10 years ago due to disagreements with her husband and mother-in-law.
Flutura has been part of the show "With an open heart" several times and has confessed that from the moment she became a mother of two children, her husband's family began to attack, insult and accuse her for everything that happened at home.
Forced into such conditions, she left the apartment together with her minor children. But after her father-in-law's prayer, she returned home after 1 year and resumed living with them. However, nothing had changed, the violence, insults, accusations continued the same, until he saw that it was impossible. They were divorced for the second time in Court and due to better financial conditions the children were left in custody to the father. But in fact, during her confession, Flutura says that she had reported her husband's parents to the Burrel police several times, who, according to her, used psychological violence.
Based on these reactions, her father-in-law and a policeman sent her to the Shkodra psychiatric hospital, where she received treatment for two weeks. Apparently, this fact was used in Court, causing the children to be placed in the custody of the husband, who has vision problems. Therefore, their grandparents and aunts took care of the children. But this problem continues to be present even today, after 10 years have passed since the divorce, since Flutura is not allowed to see the children, even though today they are adults, but on the other hand, the situation is getting worse because the children not only do not see the mother, but they insult him severely with the dirtiest words.
"I am married to the goer. I knew that my husband could not see well, but I was told that he was operated on, but the mother-in-law did not let him because she wanted to take the money. My son was operated on and they didn't tell me. I haven't seen the children since December 4, 2019. I went with the enforcement. They have hardly filled the mind of the girl to come to meet me. I have seen them from afar, I have not even touched them. The girl didn't listen, I don't mean to say. I left him in the first grade, for 4 years I had no contact with him at all. When I open facebook, he writes me horrible things.
They took me to the Shkodra psychiatric hospital, I had nothing. I had no one to take me to work, I am at work in the morning and in the afternoon. They made the father get custody. He gave the judge money. I have no proof, but he gave it 100%. He has passed away, I have nothing more to say. He decided to meet the children 2 times a month for 4 hours. This is what the first court decided. while the second trial decided to meet them once a month and keep them for 15 days in July and 15 days in August. They did not leave the children. Girl 17 and boy 13.
When I met her, the girl was aggressive towards me. He told me not to meet my mother because they yell at us at home. When she left I started crying. I tried to approach him, but in vain (crying). Psychology filled his mind, just to see mom. Meanwhile, he was happy to come, but he didn't let goca. I can't go, because if I go, the police will come straight away", the woman confessed.
Flutura declares that things went well with her ex-husband, but that he was under the control of her parents and sisters who lived in the same house.
My ex-husband tried to kill himself. I have gone to the end with the man, but they do not let him. I would agree to return with him if we had a house and took the children," said the woman.