Often women blame themselves when their partner starts showing the first signs of low desire for sex. They feel that there is something wrong with their lovemaking technique or that their partner no longer likes them. If your partner denies sex, it can't just be because he has another woman in his life, because it will end the relationship or you no longer find him beautiful and attractive.
Many men suffer with the problem of erection when they are stressed or because there is something in their life that bothers them. Researchers think that some of the reasons why men do not have sexual desire are:
Ready when you want!
Although it is claimed that men have higher sexual desire than women, this does not mean that they think about sex all the time. So, if he rejects you, don't feel offended. It is simply not able! Instead of despairing, use your seduction skills to get her interested.
New positions
For men, novelties are the spice of life. Appreciate the fact if he suggests you try something new. It is not said that the missionary position is the only one, right?!
Oral sex complaint
OK, maybe he can just ask, but when he sends signals that he wants oral sex, just don't ignore it. Men like oral sex and want the other way around too.
Attitude like "hu"
Lying there without even moving a fingertip while he does all the "work" is not pleasant at all. Join forces, even if he's on top of you. Give something of your sexual fantasy, as this way you will both feel good.
wax
He may be one of those who the movie left in the 70s, but for the most part men appreciate aesthetics in a woman. Legs and genitals are quite important to him.
Spontaneity
Yes, you can have sex anywhere: in the forest, in the field, in the car, in the elevator, in the locker room... just be spontaneous and he will appreciate it.
Shy
If he's not touching you where he should and you don't feel excited at all, then speak up! Men appreciate this. If he doesn't understand at first, he will gradually learn.
Nails placed lightly on the back and sticking them in moments of excitement are two completely different things. Learn the difference!
No sound!
If I don't say something, at least make a whisper. How can he know if you like the relationship or not when you don't make a sound? Men appreciate this, but remember: the opposite extreme is equally disliked.
Fake orgasm
It is a very wrong idea. If he thinks you're enjoying yourself, when you're not actually enjoying anything, then he gets the idea that the moves of the moment are right for you. This is wrong, because more than pleasing him, you are damaging your relationship by giving the wrong signals.
It happens and I'm not the first!
It happens! Yes, it happens, and please accept it! It doesn't mean that you don't seduce him anymore, that you don't please him, that he doesn't like your body anymore, it just happens. It's a lack of erection, that's all! Do not try to comfort him, but act normally.
The fatal questions
Surely you wouldn't like him asking, "Was it good for you?" Well, the female version of this question is: "What will happen to us now?". The simple and only answer is: it was sex. You can have discussions about commitment in the relationship later.