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Adopted a son, the moderator Fjodora Fjora surprises with the statement: I would like to have 8 children, but in Albania there are NO men who...

2024-11-13 12:02:46Lifestyle SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX
Adopted a son, the moderator Fjodora Fjora surprises with the statement: I would
Fjodora Fjora

Moderator Fjodora Fjora, who is the mother of an adopted son, confessed that she wanted to have eight children.

However, the presenter confessed that it is very difficult to find a man to commit to having children, adding that "this is a big problem".

"Even the men with whom I had serious relationships found it very difficult to commit to having a child," she emphasized.

Fjodora Fjora said that this is a very strange trend in Albanian society that all girls suffer from.

"I am not pessimistic, I personally would have liked to have 8 children. Life brought me like this, no relation... Yes, yes 8! With as much spirit as my grandparents did. I lived in a fantastic family, they lay on the ground, they enjoyed us... If I had had the opportunities, I am called today for my personal experience which comes differently. With only two grandparents, who help me as much as they can.

So I have my reasons why I can't have 3 or 4 or 5. But a very big reason is that even the men I've had serious relationships with have found it very difficult to commit to having a child. I think this is a big problem.

All girls today suffer from a very strange trend of Albanian society, to find a man who commits. Commitment means family and children. It is so open as a phenomenon. The first moment a woman joins a man, he sees it as a trap to have children. Why is this child such a terror?!", she said on the show "Opinion".

Fjodora Fjora chose to be a single mom after adopting her son, Alteos, 10 years ago.

And obviously the journalist has faced the inevitable question from the boy, where is his father.

In an interview a few years ago, Fjodora Fjora confessed how she explained to Aletto the absence of her father.

"You see other children, they have their father and you immediately face the question of why I have a father. I have tried to explain this, that there are all forms of families in this world. Some have mom and dad, some have only dad, some have only mom, and some may not have either one or the other, and someone else becomes their family, who becomes very important to them. It is important in life to have a man and role model who will raise you well and beautifully and love. We have stories full of some children being raised by their grandfather, grandmother, aunt or uncle",  said Fjodora.

She shared how her parents reacted when the journalist told her that she had made the decision to adopt a child.

"When I made the decision to adopt the child, my parents were worried that I would have difficulty finding a partner," Fjodora said.

But despite this decision, she confessed at the time that she is open to finding a partner.

Fjodora said that if she accepted a man in her life he deserves to be Alteo's parent, adding that she is happy that she did not make the wrong choice.

"I told myself if someone deserves to be my son's parent, why not come. Today we have the strength, courage and self-confidence to build and create a life for a child who depends on us. I also encourage all the girls who feel unloved, in constant challenge, because there are many girls who work, make it on their own, and men find it difficult to deal with them and make it. New acquaintances have been added to me. I think with the self-esteem I have for myself, maybe I'm the defect and not the guy who should have been my husband, but in my ideal I thought I would have 3 children. Life came so unexpectedly. I'm happy that I didn't make the choice for a wrong parent,"  she said as a guest on the "E diell" show in 2020.

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