"He'd rather pay for sex than have sex with me"/ The woman confesses how she discovered her husband's infidelity: He used to go with escorts

2022-11-17 17:24:56Lifestyle SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX
"He'd rather pay for sex than have sex with me"/ The woman
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"I thought my husband had a low sexual desire, but it turns out that he would rather pay for sex than sleep with me", this is the confession of a woman about her partner.

Narrative for The Deidre:

Throughout our relationship, he has gone with escorts and lied to me about it.

I am 36 and he is 40. We have been married for eight years and, perhaps thankfully, we have no children.

Our sex life was great at first. But once we got married, he rarely wanted to have sex with me.

This frustrated me, but I accepted it as part of it.

A few months ago, I discovered a restaurant receipt in his jacket pocket. We had never been together so I confronted him.

He admitted that he had been there with another woman with whom he had a relationship, but that it had now ended.

Husband agreed to get counseling to fix our marriage.

But in our last session, he burst into tears and admitted that he hadn't actually had an affair, but that the woman was a prostitute.

And there had been countless women over the years.

I have now kicked him out of the bedroom and told him I want a divorce. But that won't help heal my broken heart or change the fact that, despite everything, I still love him.

I don't understand how he could do this to me, he also says he doesn't understand.

It was the emotion, the risk, he tells me that to enjoy sex, it must be "dirty".

The DEIDRE: Your husband probably lied because he was ashamed of the truth, and an affair seemed somehow more pleasant.

But he has made things worse by breaking your trust.

It sounds like your husband may have a sex addiction, in which case you both would benefit from a sex and relationship counselor.

If, as you say, you still love him, this is something he can overcome with help and time.

It's up to you whether you want to try to rebuild your marriage or walk away.

Since he has had sex with several other women, you should both be checked out at a local sexual health clinic.


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