Why do women cheat? Ersida's story with Marjusi and the Librazhdi incident, what is happening with Albanian couples (Photo)

2022-08-12 09:09:59Aktualitet SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX

Why do women cheat? Ersida's story with Marjusi and the Librazhdi incident,

A shocking event was made public a few days ago where it was reported that Marjus Musaku had taken a 30-year-old woman named Ersida Dyrmishi hostage. The latter was found in an apartment in Durrës and accused Musak of holding her hostage. But the latter from prison insisted that the story was not true, since according to him, the young woman who was the mother of two children, had had an extramarital affair with him and had left on her own.

Ersida Dyrmishi together with her husband filed a police report against the 32-year-old while the latter was arrested by the police. But the family members have recently come to his defense, who have also published some messages that, according to them, prove that Ersida had an extramarital affair with Marjus Musaku.

JOQ and AbcNews media have published messages and photos where the couple were talking to each other and had intimate communication and met together. Until now, apart from the denunciation by Ersida's husband, we have no reaction regarding this situation and why he made the denunciation.

These types of events bring a strong reaction in society, such was the case a while ago in the city of Librazhd. A video which was sensationalized by the media and television shows, in that video the bride was caught by her in-laws cheating on her husband, who was abroad.

These events, for the very character they carry and the reaction they bring to society, affect as much as tragedies cause. Let's not forget that for the Durrës incident, Marjus Musaku is in prison accused of hostage-taking, while for the Librazhdi case, new details are emerging from the residents of the area.

But why do Albanian couples cheat, we get the answer to this question from the Missouri University of Science and sociologist Alisia Walker who explains to us about this phenomenon.

Sociologist Walker says he spoke to 50 women, ages 24 to 65, learning the reasons for their husbands' infidelity. In an interview with The Sun about her findings, Walker said: More than half of the women said, I'm married, but we don't have much sex and I don't have an orgasm with my husband, so I cheat, the person I cheat on the most it gives great pleasure, but I don't love it !

Walker discovered that in fact women did not cheat spontaneously, but thought about it and did it out of necessity. According to these women, their husbands have no fantasy and do not feel free during relationships, pushing them to cheating. For Walker, it's a very sad situation, as no one would want to be betrayed.

Ndërkohë që  një studiuese tjetër, Ashley Madison thotë se gratë që ti tradhtojnë zakonisht nuk duan të heqin dorë nga martesa, thjesht janë në kërkim të një kënaqësie seksuale herë pas here dhe se kjo gjë i bënë gra më të mira dhe nëna më të mira.

Në Shqipëri, sociologë të ndryshëm thonë se emigracioni është një nga arsyet pse femra shqiptare e tradhton burrin e saj.

Sipas sociologut Gëzim Tushi në një intervistë ka thënë se: Një pjesë e madhe e gocave i kuptojnë këto ndrydhjet apo ngërçet e martesës dhe ato thonë sa të hyjmë në një martesë që të marr një mashkull dembel, parazit, të dhunshëm, xheloz i cili do më privojë nga liritë dhe nga të drejtat dhe vendos që të rrijë vetëm. Gjen justifikime të tilla, bën shkolla, bën mastera, doktoratura vetëm që ta shtyje ose të mos e bëjë fare martesën.

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