Four years after the loss of her only son, Flutura Açka: I kept my word son!

2022-05-05 09:28:20Aktualitet SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX
Four years after the loss of her only son, Flutura Açka: I kept my word
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Writer and MP Flutura Açka remembered the loss of her only son 4 years ago.

" In memories, what else can we hold on to without falling?

A few days ago, a friend, who had lost her teenage daughter in early March, asked me how I had managed to cope with the loss of my son?

Did I make it?

I did not tell him that I was afraid I had failed. Time after such losses, to make sense, as Hamlet says, "comes out of the joints only." Without them falling apart, we do not know if we have ever lived as orphans of our children.

A few days from May 5, 2018, when I lost my son, a friend, who had just explained to me that she could barely count the days to go to her student daughter in Europe, asked me how I was coping.

I said calmly without blaming her for the negligence and the questions: "Look, like you, counting the days, but you end, not me!"

Tonight, four years after saying goodbye to him, in addition to flowers and candles, I have to put next to my son's picture the new book… and tell him…

I kept my word!

Please, friends, do not write messages of condolence. " Thank you for your understanding ," she wrote.

Four years after the loss of her only son, Flutura Açka: I kept my word


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