For the first time, singer Xhensila Myrtezaj has spoken about her separation from her husband, actor Bes Kallaku.
Jensila told Arbana Osmani why she made the decision to separate. Jensila says that her relationship with Besi had been in crisis for years and so that her children would have peace in the future, she decided to seek divorce.
"For several years we had been trying to sort out the dissatisfaction in our marriage with the desire not to end it. But there is always a crisis in the couple. We had not yet decided whether we wanted to be separated or together. But I think that in any relationship when actions and words do not match, when there are arguments in the relationship, it becomes toxic. It becomes harmful for me, the children, and for him. So I made the decision to separate.
In a couple, cooperation is needed, work is needed from both partners. I realized that not only one side should fight, but both. It was a decision made by me. I had to take it as a step because I saw no other option. Divorce is not easy. Some steps, no matter how difficult they are, you have to find the courage to take them. I found strength in my children, because I wanted the children to have peace in the future. I have taken a lot of burden on my shoulders. What has not been said about me, what I have not read. But I cannot change the world, I cannot change their mindset," says Jensila.