They will become parents soon, Sara Gjordeni confesses: I took the tests and left them in Bardhi's hand, trembling, with the other hand I was making a video!

2024-07-06 11:17:51Lifestyle SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX
They will become parents soon, Sara Gjordeni confesses: I took the tests and
Sara Gjordeni/ Bardhi

Sara and Bardhi are enjoying not only their love, but also the reception of their first child.

The couple created in "Big Brother", in an interview for "Who" magazine, brought for the first time the sensations of this pregnancy, as well as pieces from their daily life. Below is a snippet of the duo's interview.

How has this period been for you both?

It has been very busy and "full" of different emotions

Usually as a measure of things that happen quickly we take the time span of a year, but you have exceeded the predictions, in less than not just 1 year, but less than 6 months you changed your life completely, do you believe in chance, fate, or only love?

All of them a little, to be honest, but also with a little plan inside, especially the baby.

At the end of the year and the beginning of a new year, we express some wishes, you had expressed your wishes so how has your life been these months?

Sara: I've always wanted to be a mother, every new year I wished her, not just last year.

Bardhi: I believe a lot in God, I know that he returns the good things to me just as he returned them to the family I created and in which I find the love of the world.

You met and fell in love in a television format like "Big Brother", did you hesitate at any point in accepting the invitation when you received it?

Sara: Not me, I was at a point where I wanted to change my life profoundly, and that's what happened!

Bardhi: I was a little hesitant to be honest, but now that I look back and think that we didn't have the baby between us, I would do it 20 times over.

Sara Is it harder or easier to understand how much you love someone in a space watched 24/24 by cameras? For you, Bardhi, how was this part?

Sara: It was easy for me, because I know a person's body language well. Bardhi was a sincere man both in words and actions. Developing feelings for him came very quickly because you can't help but love someone like that, whether you have a camera or not.

Bardhi: The only part that was difficult was that you didn't know the person outside. But, specifically for Sarah, it was easy because her combative character and genuineness grabbed me from the first week. It was stronger than anything

How did you experience the separation from a "reality show" to a reality-reality, I'm talking here about the couple relationship?

We have hardly felt the transition from a "reality show" to everyday life. The presence of each other has made us look alike.

Bardhi kur ti u shprehe se Sara do të ishte nëna e fëmijëve të t’u, sigurisht që rrjeti shpërtheu, por ja ku jemi sot me ty, Sarën dhe një bebush që është rrugës. Një përgjigje e heshtur për ata që besuan dhe nuk besuan në lidhjen tuaj.

Shpesh kam qeshur me reagimet ndaj deklaratave të mia. Por publiku është influencuar nga 2-3 persona që kanë folur për Sarën, ndërsa ajo që unë njoh tek ajo, e bën vajzën perfekte dhe nuk e lija pa e bërë nënën e fëmijëve të mi një ditë.

Jeni në pritje të ëmbël, lajm që vendosët që shumë shpejt ta ndanit dhe për publikun, Sara si e more vesh, momenti që e ndave me Bardhi? Duam detaje

Ishte moment shumë i shpejtë, ishim gati t’i hidhnim testet sepse dolën negative për shkak se isha ende shumë herët dhe donte kohë të shfaqej vija e dytë. Kur i bëra një kontroll tjetër pas 30 minutash, ishin dy vija. Telefonova mamin që nisi të qante nga gëzimi, aty u ndërgjegjësova çfarë kishte ndodhur. I mora testet dhe ia lashë Bardhit në dorë duke u dridhur. Me dorën tjetër bëja video reagimin e tij. Jemi përqafuar dhe kemi qarë nja 15 minuta pa reshtur të dy me ngashërim. U duk sikur mërzia e atyre ditëve u shpërblye me lutjen tonë më të madhe.

Hezituat ta ndanit me familjen, apo ishte lajm që u përhap menjëherë?

Vendosëm vetë ta ndanim gëzimin shpejt. Arsyeja ishte sepse po na mbyste një negativitet i pamerituar. Donim të thyenim energjinë e keqe me një bekim.

Po rrjeti, fansat, rrethi juaj si reagoi, ndoshta ti Sara e ke përjetuar më shumë këtë pjesë, apo ishte “çmim” që e paguat të dy?

Nuk kam pasur çfarë çmimi të paguaj. Fëmija është bekim nga zoti. Nuk është çmim që paguhet, as reagimet për ardhjen e tij.

Jeni dy prej personazheve më të komentuar të edicionit të “BBV3”, jo vetëm për shkak të lidhjes tuaj, por edhe për dinamikat që krijuat gjatë kohës që ishit në lojë, duhet thënë edhe jashtë saj. E keni menduar faktin se po të qëndronit më gjatë, gjërat do të ishin ndryshe, apo fakti që ndodhën ashtu si ndodhën, i çoi gjërat në vendin e vet?

Sara: Mua realisht më vjen keq sepse u ndërgjegjësova sa lojtare dinamike kisha qenë vetëm kur dola. Kontakti i parë ishte me Ledionin i cili më tha: Ke qenë një ndër lojtaret më të forta të këtij edicioni, në momentin që dola. Aty ishte thyerja ime e parë dhe momenti kur u zhgënjeva nga vetja. Mendoj që do kisha zgjatur shumë më tepër në “Big Brother” nëse nuk do të më kishte mbërthyer sedra aq fort.

Bardhi: Unë “Big Brother” e shihja thjesht si eksperiencë e cila do të më bënte të njihja veten time në shumë dimensione të tjera. Siç edhe në fakt e njoha. Mendësia ime nuk ishte e fokusuar te loja, por mund të them se kam dalë më i fituari nga ajo eksperiencë. Kam fituar një Bardh më të fortë, një vajzë që ma ka ndryshuar jetën dhe një bebe që është rrugës dhe kjo ma ka ndryshuar jetën plotësisht. Nuk do të ndryshoja asgjë nga ky rrugëtim.

Bardhi, ti si e përjetove gjithë boom-in mediatik pasi e ndërpreve aventurën tënde në “BBV3”, ishin reagime që i prisje, apo kishte edhe një lloj tronditjeje?

Of course I'm a little shocked. In my opinion, neither I nor Sarah did anything wrong in there. There have been characters who have crossed the red line a lot more than us and they haven't been judged as much. However, as I mentioned above, it was hatred completely stimulated by other people in the media, with statements without knowing us at all.

Sara, you have been commented endlessly, how during the time you were inside the "Big Brother" house, but also outside it, were you prepared for such feedback?

Of course. I was "all in all" in that game, so I looked aggressive, just like my game. I spared no one for anything, sometimes not even my partner, because my limits were absolute. Albanians are not used to this, they are used to the image of a gentle woman. My aggression in the game has been defined as "masculine" and "scandalous", this is because I had the courage of a man to express myself. All of this has been a consequence of not being afraid of my truths and who I am. But the insults about morality have been excessive and totally out of place. I have been a private person all my life, without scandals and with a regular job. I still don't understand the violation of ethical boundaries. It will remain absurd.

Such formats, in addition to love stories, also create very good friendships, which of those you lived with in BBV will you keep your friendship with abroad?

Have you had any disappointments with any of them and if so, we want names?

Not really, they all turned out as we expected.

Let's go back to the baby, Sara, tell us about the grandchildren you had during this period, did any of them "darken" Bardhi's life a bit, or was it a quiet period?

She is a very good baby. It keeps me healthy because it likes vegetables, fruits, meat and pickles. He does not prefer fast food, chips or ice cream. The strangest Nepsi has been beer, which we choose without alcohol. And for that we have options.

You have started living together, but what will your life be like together after the baby is born, in Albania or Kosovo?

We are in Albania and I believe that we will stay here for some time.


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