Why am I dreaming about my ex? Scientists answer the question

2022-07-12 09:00:34Lifestyle SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX
Why am I dreaming about my ex? Scientists answer the question
Illustrative photo

You have just created a relationship that completely satisfies you and has excellent cooperation. And while everything is going well, you feel that your conscience wants to convey some completely different messages to you. If you often see your ex-partner sleeping and you don't feel very comfortable about it, there is no reason to panic according to scientists.

Multiple interpretations

If you do a Google search, you'll be a little more uncomfortable with the results as to why this might be happening. Many argue that your new relationship reminds you enough of the old one, yes, the one you dream about every night, so the conscience wants to show you that you are on the wrong path again.

Also, many believe that this indicates that you are repeating the same behavior in your current relationship and the dream acts as a warning sign. On the other hand, it is argued that dreaming about an ex is a good metaphor to show that you have left the past behind for good and are able to commit to your new relationship.

Scientific explanation

There are many interpretations of this event, but according to the psychologist, Dr. To Kalani Ben-Ari, seeing an ex-partner in his sleep means a lot more than we think. "Dreams tend to lead us beyond consciousness. It is a very personal matter and if we remember more details from the dream, then we can definitely find the necessary symbolism more easily."

The dreams we have about a past relationship have less to do with the person playing than what it represents. The person we dream about symbolizes our feelings that are stable or wants to say something deeper about us and our relationships as they are formed today.

However, according to Ben-Ari, we do not need to feel guilty under any circumstances. If the dream comes back and repeats itself, it definitely wants to tell you something, so it's best to look deeper within yourself to find the answer. The important thing is to let go of the fear that usually follows such dreams and allow ourselves to understand any hidden symbolism. 


Video