"We have sent away 10 children", the daycare managers comfort the 1-year-old because... he cries

2024-03-14 22:57:01Aktualitet SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX
"We have sent away 10 children", the daycare managers comfort the
The managers of the daycare center calm the 1-year-old because... he cries

Besarda Mehmetaj says that she has a 1-year-old child, which she registered in January at nursery school number 3 "Dritë" in Kamëz.

She says that she only left the child for an hour, after the teacher called her saying that she was crying.

"I left very little time for the child to acclimatize. The schedule is 7 to 5. In the meantime, I would take the child somewhere around 8 and after an hour the teacher would pick me up and tell me that the child was crying. This has continued for more than 1 month in a row. In February, I told him that the child will stay longer, I am at work and I cannot take him and keep him at home. The teacher showed me videos where the boy played, stood and sometimes cried normally like a 1-year-old child. Then when 11 o'clock went by, the educator Xensila would pick me up and tell me to take the child because he was crying", she said.

The situation reached the point where the educator Xhensila tells her that she can leave her in the kindergarten until the end of the week, as they could not deal with her child.

"On Wednesday, when I brought the child together with my husband, I was told that this child will be kept until Friday, which is today, and then we cannot keep him anymore because this child is crying," said the informant.

Besarda says that he was forced to get a lady to keep his son, but he can't do it.

With hidden cameras, the child's mother meets the director of the "Dritë" nursery school, who tells her to keep the boy at home, as they have nothing to do with him.

The director of the institution, as if without harm, mentions 10 other children who have left, as the educators were unable to keep them.

Citizen: How did you go?

Principal : What did you do?

Citizen: Good! How are you? How will we do with Amari?

Director: With Amari?

Citizen: Yes!

Headmistress: I told you that he cries, but hold on for a while!

Citizen: Since he is crying, educators are sorry, but what are they paid for?

Headmistress : For God's sake, they worked hard!

Citizen: That they are paid with our taxes in the first place.

Director : You have the right of the whole world, but now there are children who do not stabilize at once. A few periods...

Citizen: But the child cannot be stabilized, when I go, I have the child down here at the bar, we have the bar. As soon as I get there, Jensila tells me, come on, take the child!

Headmistress: I know, I know!

Citizen: Come on, take it! I'm sorry, if I bring it, I bring it out of trouble.

Director: You are right...

Citizen: Because I'm at work, I have a loan, I'm with my problems.

Director: I told you one more thing that day, hold on for a while, a few days...!

Citizen: Here is the boy, even at the moment they took him, they put the boy inside, the boy is not crying at all.

Headmistress: She doesn't just cry down there, she cries inside, as long as she stays for a while, that is, 10 minutes passed, and then we hold her in our arms, put her in the cart, take her everywhere and she didn't rest. For a child, who cries all the time, think that it is difficult even for us in here. Not all children stay in daycare, you should know that. At least 10 have fled from here. Do you understand me? Not just your son!

Citizen: Yes!

Director : There was also another girl. I entered it myself and spent 2 and a half hours with it. I haven't left anything undone on the phone, playing games, as if I was not resting alive in the world.

Citizen: We have an order from above not to keep the child.

Director: There is no order from above! Don't discuss it, he said it wrong, thoughtless, thoughtless. I love children, but a child that is not taught is difficult for us too. He was an overgrown child, we changed him in the 4 groups, he was not taught alive in the world! What else can I say? I, my obligation is to support the children, for a child, who is not taught, what should I do?

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Regarding the problem of the child not being kept in the Kamza daycare center with the claim that he cries constantly, the journalist of "Stop" addresses the institution and talks with the owner and the educator.

Both accept the fact that they told the mother that they cannot keep him, because according to them, Amari is not like other children.

When the journalist asks the headliner for a solution, she says more arrogantly that "Stop" should solve this issue.

Director: You are very right, but if I advise him and tell him to keep a period, when it gets better, bring it back, where is the fault here?

Journalist: No, you are told that you should take the child out of the nursery because the child is crying. It is not an argument. Only if you, the educator, want a child without talking, without laughing, without moving from the place, without teasing a friend, and you want this child? Children laugh, cry, that's what educators are paid for. If they want a child like the work of this educator they are incapable of, run away.

Director : The documentation is inside.

Journalist: It's the last procedure then, that's why she got Stopi.

Journalist: So you made these communications?

Educator: Yes, I did them.

Journalist: You said until Friday and then we'll see what will happen to your child.

Educator : Of course you can continue.

Journalist: With your head, or the director's?

Educator: I followed the principal's order. I have them too, you're not the only one. I don't know what she talked to you about.

Journalist: What happened to Amari?

Educator: Amari has been taught all day hand to hand with different people.

Reporter: Shall we leave him standing now?

Educator: He has not been able to hear his voice for 2-3 months.

Journalist: Are you responsible for this case?

Director: I am definitely responsible if I returned the documentation.

Journalist: What will happen to Amari?

Director: You will find your place with Amari.

Journalist : Do you mean you threaten? Will we find a place for him?

Headmistress: Definitely.

Then the journalist turned to the Kamëz Municipality, specifically the Directorate of Kindergartens and Kindergartens, where the official promised to take measures for the staff, the educator and the head of the nursery and to solve the problem of settling little Amari.

"I wish the parents had come to us earlier than to you and we would have received a concrete solution for the child's case. We, as an institution, will take the necessary measures against the responsible persons if they have behaved in ways that do not seem correct in relation to work and the institution.

Amari will attend daycare. We will try our best to make Amari as calm as possible and stay as comfortable and cozy as possible in the nursery", said the representative of the municipality.


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