Invited to the show "Live with Luizin", Valbona Selimllari confessed that she has beaten boys who dared to approach her.
When moderator Luiz Ejlli asked her how she would introduce herself, Valbona said that she has never been good at introducing herself. But she added that she is peaceful and has a very strong personality.
"Oh, how many times I've beaten you. I'm from '91 and '97," Selimllari said, laughing.
Then, Luiz mentioned a news story that had recently circulated about her, where it was said that she had been raped. Valbona categorically denied it and added that in fact she had beaten up the boys who had dared to approach her.
"Oh Luiz, how many boys I've beaten, it's never happened in my life that someone raped me. I don't know why they do it. Two of those 3 boys I beat, they dared to approach me," she said.
Excerpt from the interview :
Luiz: You studied acting, why did you stop?
Valbona : Because I only have one experience as an actress in Don Juan.
Luiz: The mice are known for peace in the world, how much are you for peace?
Valbona: There are some very interesting moments. When you represent your country, you say things like peace. Without peace, there is no life. But now it has taken on a different meaning. I pray for peace very quickly. I unwillingly try to avoid reality. My soul hurts. If I had a magic wand in my hand, I would have undone it.
Luis: Where do you find peace?
Valbona : It's a bit of a mess when you're a mother of 3 children. They're the ones who take it from me and bring it back to me. I made a compromise, they take it and give it to me when they want.
Luiz : How is your relationship with social networks?
Valbona: I don't see them. I'm very little active on Instagram, I post a lot. Now with all this information my soul hurts. I did a very good thing, I changed the algorithm.
Luiz: You closed comments on a recent post, what happened?
Valbona: The boys are worried. I don't read them, but I feel when something is wrong and it affects the children.
Luizi: A news story recently came out saying that Valbona Selimllari was raped
Valbona: Oh Luiz, how many boys I've beaten, it's never happened in my life that someone raped me. I don't know why they do it. Two of those 3 boys I beat, dared to approach me.
Asked by moderator Luiz Ejlli how she is as a mother, Valbona said that she would like her sons to answer this question.
"How I wish my sons would respond. Sometimes with curses, putting their hands over their ears, because I criticize. As long as I am a mother, this voice of mine has no chance of escaping from you. I have told you I want you to be human, to live a quality life. My words will be a pain in the ears for you, but I don't care. But we also have our laughter," she said.
When asked whether it is easier to raise girls or boys, Valbona said that "boys hurt, but girls don't."
"Girls are love. A child is a blessing, God has forgiven us, I say thank you from morning to night. A girl makes a difference. A girl doesn't hurt you, boys do. They get upset when they hurt you, but when they realize it, they have wounded my soul. Boys are difficult. I told them they will make mistakes, but make mistakes that have the strength to bear, no, they can't bear them," Selimllari continued.
Speaking about her children, Valbona said that she left everything for them until they were 15 years old.
"I left my career and everything to be with them. Until I was 15, every day of my life. Luckily, they have my role model. I have a big soul, I am very human. I was a little strict, stricter than necessary. Recently, I have called it a mistake, a tactic. With the girl, I have changed ," she said.
Asked by Luiz if they are jealous and he demands accountability, Selimllari said that for them she is a "drama queen." But he added that they do not demand accountability because she is very careful and honest with them.
"Not to this point, they are not jealous, I am very careful, I am very honest. There is nothing they don't know about me ," Valbona continued.
Speaking about her daughter, she said:
"My mother has three daughters and a son. I know how girls work. I used other tactics with the daughter, she is love. I know what happens to me now that I see her grown up, that she has become taller than me, I died for the little one, very cute."