
The daughter of former MP Mark Frroku addressed the Newsbomb.al editorial team this Thursday, bringing us another perspective from what has been publicly displayed on social networks.
She has shed light on a reality that, according to her, is far from the image of family harmony exhibited dozens of times on social networks by her father's wife, actress Rudina Dembacaj.
In a statement sent to our editorial team, Mara Frroku emphasized that at this moment she feels pain when she sees Dembacaj's statements that she considers her husband's children as "her own children." According to Mara, beautiful messages on social and public networks can create the image that everything is going "perfectly", but the reality within the family is different and that according to her, Rudina Dembacaj is the one who is creating barriers between them and their father, Mark.
"Parenthood is not proven with statements, but with behavior. It is not humane to say "they are mine" and at the same time separate children from the only parent they have or from their home. The family is maintained with presence and involvement, not with control. Today, it is enough to wear the family's clothes for the cameras and be called big; gatekeeper at home, protagonist in the media", Mara told Newsbomb.al.
It is worth noting that at the end of her statement, she chose to "sign" with the name Mara Hanvera Froku, using her mother's name, not her father's. This is a detail that has not gone unnoticed and clearly shows the "cold" relationship between them, and according to Mara, the cause was precisely actress Rudina Dembacaj.
Mara, Erta and Nardi are the three children of former Socialist MP, Mark Frroku. Rudina Dembacaj herself, who also has a daughter from her first marriage, Viktorian, has often shared moments with her husband's children on social networks, and has even claimed that she treats them and sees them as if they were her own.
"Today, as we speak, I absolutely cannot imagine my life without them. Even when they have problems, age problems, I try to be the person who puts myself in their position. I become much less scolding and try to set my example. I love those children," Dembacaj herself tearfully declared in September 2023 in an interview given to Top Channel.
Mara Frroku's full statement:
We write this statement with pain, not anger, after several public statements by Rudina Dembacaj that "my husband's children are my children." Words and facades may seem beautiful to friends, but family members know the truth.
Parenthood is not proven by statements, but by behavior. It is not humane to say “they are mine” and at the same time separate children from the only parent they have or from their home. The family is maintained by presence and involvement, not by control. Today, it is enough to wear the family's cloak for the camera and be called great; a gatekeeper at home, a protagonist in the media. But facades are clichés, and inhumane actions should not be applauded, they should be held accountable.
Mara Hanvera Frroku