
Actress and mother of two sons with powerful names, Dasantini and Kostandini, Delinda Disha shares her feelings and experiences of motherhood in "Mam" with Orinda Huta.
The two boys have completely different characters from each other, Dasantini is more serious while the younger one is funny and irrepressible. Before the arrival of Kostandini, Delinda and her husband had been thinking about expanding their family for a long time. The first time, it seemed like the plan was coming to life because she had a pregnancy, but it ended quickly. The second time it seemed like the plan was coming true.
Delinda shared the news on Instagram that the family was growing with two new members. Fate did not want the wish to come true. Tearfully, she also revealed their gender for the first time.
"It was very beautiful, I made the news public out of the great joy I had to share it, while you think about another child, you find out that you will have two, even more so twins. It was difficult, but here I am today. It feels a little like this because Dasantini always said I want a sister and a brother and when it happened I told him, mom has fulfilled your wish, you will have a sister and a brother.
"Although we told him much later, he said, 'Why didn't you tell me sooner so I can understand?' I told him, 'Mom didn't want to bother you because you had already started dreaming, we had already started organizing the room. Look, things happen for a reason. Maybe this had to happen so you would realize that you are strong, you will make it."
The actress also remembers the moment she learned that something was wrong. "It was in the fourth month and she went for a routine check-up, but the doctor's behavior let her know that the signs were not good. She told me to calm down, take it easy, it usually happens because twin pregnancies are very difficult, so it's a success for us doctors when everything ends successfully, but one of the babies' heart is no longer beating. It was like my world turned upside down and immediately what will happen to the other one?
"We did the consultation, the other one said, "You can hear the heartbeat, but for someone as old as you, I'm surprised that you don't have the right parameters." Initially, only one of the twins died, and not long after, the other one. The idea was to save the other one, but it didn't take long and the other baby's heart stopped in a short time. The hemorrhage didn't happen with the first one, it happened with the second one."
Delinda says she deleted the posts only because of the constant questions that were too much and painful, but the memory of them will always accompany her.