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"He stayed with me for 3 months until his heart stopped", Orinda Huta talks about abortion for the first time

2022-06-17 18:53:24Lifestyle SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX
"He stayed with me for 3 months until his heart stopped", Orinda Huta
Orinda Huta

Everything happened 5 years ago. When just after the wedding she and Turjan learned that they were expecting a baby. A joy that stopped after three months. Orinda Huta recounts for the first time in an interview the ordeal of trying to have a child.

Traces that never left…

"The wedding happened and we said ok, now we are ready to build a family. We had never tried, so that was the moment. It happened. It so happened that I got pregnant very soon, right after marriage… (cries). I thought that I would not have such moments for this ... I also told my friends who lost their first baby, that that trace never left. Never! ”Orinda told Tirana Post.

In detail he then tells the moments when the doctor told him that he could no longer hear the baby beating. "At first I was cold", - says Orinda - "Maybe I did not understand yet".

"Sweet wait, those three months, that at the beginning of 3 months I lost it… I was very happy of course. It was Easter period in fact when I found out I was pregnant, I too expected it as a great blessing from God. I remember singing the song "Sometimes over the rainbow". I was with this chorus all the time. Stayed 3 months with me and then was no more. His heart stopped. So there I suffered a big fracture and in the first moment when my doctor said to me: "Orinda, I am not listening to my heart", - I said: "Order", - she told me: "I am not listening to my heart". While I had visits very frequent because it was the first and I was very worried. Two days ago I had been to her because I had a worry, and everything was ok. And after two days, I said to him: “I have no more nausea today. "I do not know how I feel." Told me: "Come on, don't worry." I go and he says: "I do not hear the heartbeat". Meanwhile tha is fixedly shaped as if it were yesterday. As it was yesterday, today it is not. So it was fixed with age. "How do you not feel it?" I said. "I do not feel it. "She is no longer Orinda," he told me. Ok, I told him what should we do? At that moment I was very cold. "We have to proceed," he said. Ok, when? I told him tomorrow. "Okay, tomorrow. "When you want," he said. I remember sending a message to Turjan that we lost him. It was certainly alarming, but it held its own. When I got home I was locked in by myself. I locked myself in the room. I did not cry. I still probably did not understand. I did not get into it… The next day when I went to do the intervention, I was then with Merita Alushani who helped me, and I had all her colleagues there who told me: “Do not worry. it is only the first time. Do you know how many times such a thing happens? It happens to most women to have losses. Not just one, two. The important thing is that you will have a baby. Prova u dha. "You get pregnant." At that moment I was just in tears. I burst into tears before the operation, while I should not have burst into tears before the operation. They kept telling me it would pass. "The first miracle will come. You will see it. I took myself. "Everything is over." I took myself. "Everything is over." I took myself. "Everything is over."

Pikërisht në këtë moment, kur Orinda po përpiqej të shërohej nga dhimbja e humbjes, disa njerëz nisën të gërmonin në plagën e saj. E përse? Vetëm për ca klikime.

“Në atë periudhë, kur unë e kisha humbur, dolën lajmet e shtatzënisë, që isha shtatzënë. Askush nuk të merr të pyet. Kjo ndodh. Dhe ndërkohë unë isha përgatitur shpirtërisht që do ndodhte kjo gjë, që do shkruanin, por jo të paktën pa më pyetur mua, pa më kërkuar të paktën a ka gjë, a s`ka gjë. Unë mund të jepja një përgjigje në atë moment se realisht nuk kishte gjë. Do thoja jo, nuk kam gjë. Kujtoj që dikush më ka marrë. I kam thënë që jo, nuk ka asnjë gjë. Unë nuk jam shtatzënë dhe e ka shkruar. Gjithsesi vazhdonin me muaj të tërë. Dhe unë nuk e di, sa herë që dilja apo shtoja ndonjë kilogram, unë për të gjithë isha shtatzënë. Nuk e kuptonin. Kjo ndodh rëndom dhe në njëfarë forme i lëndojnë njerëzit. Unë e kërkoja atë shtatzëni. Unë e doja atë shtatzëni. Gjatë gjithë kohës më gërmoje aty ku unë e kisha plagën të hapur… Akoma”, tregon Orinda.

Katër vite që sa herë shfaqej, portalet shkruanin mbi një shtatzëni. Ndërkohë që ajo nuk replikonte me askënd. Vetëm vazhdonte t'i lutej Zotit për ta bekuar, pa u dorëzuar.

Vitet e pritjes i rrëfen kështu...

“Realisht Zoti më ka bërë një dhuratë, në një moment që ndoshta nuk po e prisja më. Edhe pse brenda meje, ose edhe kur flisja me njerëzit, për t`i inkurajuar, u thosha që do vijë. Do e sjelli gjithsesi. Në fakt kam qenë gjatë gjithë 4-vjeçarit e bindur që Zoti do e sillte një ditë. Në një formë, ose në një tjetër do e sillte. Edhe Turit ia thoja. E bindnim njëri-tjetrin. Pavarësisht se në ato momente, para se të merrja vesh për ardhjen e Atarës, sikur kisha filluar të lodhesha pak. Kjo ndodh besoj me shumë nëna që e vuajnë ardhjen në jetë të një bebeje.

Një mesazh për të gjitha ato gra që po jetojnë ditë të tilla!

"I encourage each of the women not to give up. Take it easy. These look like a lot of clichés. That I have also been told often, that you take it easy! Everything will pass! Never give up. God has a plan for you. He had a plan for me and Atara came. I hope he has more in his plan, but still I am very happy, even just with Atara! Anyway I encourage each of the couples to take care of each other, of each other's mental health, of the spiritual one, because if they are together in this mission and do not point the finger or blame either one or the other, things will come and go to become even better. That is why I want everyone to stay with this message that if you are not for each other in the couple, to encourage and support each other ".


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