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"No one should dare to say that it was your fault"/ the 52-year-old Italian writes a letter to the Albanian: Our fate is the same! Live for the boy!

2023-05-08 13:27:13Aktualitet SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX
Paola Piras, her son and the Albanian family

A surviving woman's letter to another woman. This time the protagonist is a 39-year-old Albanian woman, who the day before survived the rage of her husband, with whom she was in the process of divorcing, but her daughter who jumped to protect her was killed with a knife by her father. as well as an Italian citizen, with whom he suspected the woman was having an affair.

After the tragedy of Torremaggiore, Foggia, 52-year-old from Tortolì Paola Piras, who two years ago lost her son, who was killed to protect him from her violent partner, decided to write to the 39-year-old Albanian who had the same tragic fate.

Tefta, like Paola, was protected from her husband's murderous rampage by her 16-year-old daughter, who was killed along with her alleged lover.

"Dear Tefta, I don't know you, but somehow fate - bad fate - makes us two close people", she writes in her letter.

"I've walked into your darkness"

"I know that everyone goes through pain in their own way, but you have to believe me if I tell you that I think I know what you are feeling", adds Paola Piras in the open letter sent to "Il Corriere della Sera.

"I know - she continues - because I went through the same darkness as you. On May 11, two years ago, my son Mirko tried to protect me from the violent man, whom I unfortunately loved and who I then left and denounced, when history became a prison for me. That May 11, he appeared at dawn armed with his revenge and began stabbing me: one, two, three, 18 times.

Mirko as your daughter Gessica. Two children lost to protect us from men so strong in violence, so lacking in courage to endure a goodbye - she writes again.

- I have thought many times about this type of men. Can't handle abandonment? Do you think you can no longer live without the woman who left you? If all this becomes so destructive to you, kill yourself. Turn the evil inside yourself or ask for help to escape from it".

"Don't let anyone dare to say it was your fault"

"And then I hope that no one, from the outside, dares to say that it was your fault, because that hurts you, poisons your thoughts, puts you on the same level as the murderer. A malice".

"They did it to me several times," she admits. - Someone said it was my fault, because after the separation I was not only a mother and a saint, but I got into a wrong story, with a violent man, for more Pakistanis.

"Live for the other guy"

"Dear Tefta, I read that you have another child. Perhaps you have already thought that living no longer makes sense, a mother who survives before a child exists, but does not live. But you owe it to him, your child. You owe it to him and yourself. Keep her as close as you can and treasure your daughter's memories as if they were precious stones. Feed them! Keep it lit. This is the only way to still have him there with you", he concludes.


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